Jesus! There’s Just Something About That Name

    © by John Fischer for CCM Magazine, August, 2001 issue.
A reader recently wrote me about an insight she received during a Bible study she teaches regularly to female inmates in a local prison. Apparently in one of their sessions while discussing the gory details of the crucifixion, one of the prisoners cried out, “Jesus!”

Now, because she meant this more as an expletive than a prayer, the teacher reported how she found herself getting a little angry at first. But then she thought, “Why would I expect someone in jail for prostitution and crack addiction to behave in a holy way?” She concluded that the prisoner’s response, given her place in life at the time and the subject under discussion, should have been expected.

I believe Jesus would have been the last one offended by His name being used in this scenario. The inmate grasped something of the significance of His death on the cross, and she expressed that realization exactly as anyone might expect her to.

Why are Christians the first to be offended by the world? Are we really that much better than everyone else? It seems to be a constant theme among Christians: That the world is getting more and more decadent. Preachers bemoan this. Politicians deplore it. Parents worry over it. Christians, especially American Christians, live with a kind of moral chip on our shoulders as if somehow deserve a better world than the one we got.

A world that offends us is hard to rationalize with the gospel of grace. Sometimes I think we are more engaged in our own piety than we are in the real needs of those around us who are unsaved and without God. We are more prone to be put off by a homosexual’s lifestyle than we are to be concerned about the fact that he may be dying of AIDS. We are more hurt by non-Christians than we hurt for them. Our desire for a safe world sometimes eclipses a desire to love people, identify with them in their sin (since we are sinners, too) and bring them the good news of salvation.

As a frequent guest speaker about Christianity and contemporary culture, I am familiar with the ongoing debate over whether Christians should watch R-rated movies or read novels full of offensive language. I can sympathize with how a Christian might want to be careful about his or her entertainment. But there is always a part of this discussion I can never understand: the part that makes it sound like we want a nicer world, at least where we can control it.

I always wonder how the person who doesn’t want swearing in their movies handles a regular day at work. If they are offended by it in a movie, I am sure they are offended by it in life, and to some degree, the non-Christian will know that too. How can you witness to an unsaved person about the grace of God that saved you from your sin, when the real message that person is getting from you is that they offend your sense of holiness? How much of our message to the world is really, “Clean yourself up, and I will tell you about Jesus. Otherwise, I really don’t want to be around you because everything about you offends me.”

I think, sooner or later, it comes down to the fact that we can choose our entertainment but we can’t choose our world. This is the only world we’ve got, and if it offends us, then we’ve got to get over that for the sake of the gospel. I have read the life of Christ over and over again, and not once have I ever found Jesus offended by a sinner. I do find him offended by the Pharisees, however, and the Pharisees would be the people Jesus encountered who were most offended by their world. Their self-righteousness set them apart from everyone else, and Jesus never liked that about them. Jesus appeared to always prefer the company of offensive people over those who saw themselves as the offended.

We can choose our entertainment but we can’t choose our world. And the good news is that Jesus can, and He chose this one--this real-life, R-rated world we live in. He chose to be here rather than to stay in heaven where everything is nice.

We need to be more willing to adjust to our world for the sake of Christ and the gospel than to keep insisting that the world adjust to us. This is what incarnation is all about. God became human and dwelt among us. Yet the only ones who truly offended Him were self-righteous religious people like us.

Jesus would have really liked that woman in her prison Bible study who used His name as she did when she found out what His death was like on the cross. He would have been right there with her. He probably is.

Baddest day of my lyf

It was Feb 14.  Valentines day, when i had one of the most forgettable day of my life though my day started really good, cause i recieved a txt msg from this girl i really really like but i doubt that she'll feel the same way for me. And BAM! 5 mins later she got mad at me coz i replied something she didnt like..  And because of that she didnt talk to me the whole day.. Grrrr... i wished i never replied that way... but thats just the start of the strings of bad luck that happend to me that day.
    When i got to the office.. i just learned that i will be assigned to our manila office by april. and i really dont want to go there.. because im gonna miss someone here.  but i have no choice.. since the announcement i lost my enthusiasm to work that day, it means that i cant work properly anymore and im nearing my deadline. Afterwork i was supposed to go to the mall when i discovered i left my money at home, so my malling was cancelled. Dinner time came.. i was supposed to be happy.  but when i saw the ulam, i didnt like.. so my mom got mad at me... When i got to bed im still waiting for a reply from that girl i said earlier.. luckily she replied but not the reply i was wishing for she's still mad.. But the worst is that day was valentines day and i have no DATE!

For You.. (u know hu u are :D)

    The strands in your eyes that color them wonderful
Stop me and steal my breath
And emeralds from mountains thrust towards the sky
Never revealing their depth
Tell me that we belong together
Dress it up with the trappings of love
I'll be captivated, I'll hang from your lips
Instead of the gallows of heartache that hang from above

Chorus:I'll Be your cryin' shoulder
I'll Be loves suicide
I'll Be better when I'm older
I'll Be the greatest fan of your life

And rain falls angry on the tin roof
As we lie awake in my bed
You're My Survival, You're My Living Proof
My love is alive and not dead

Tell me that we belong together
Dress it up with the trappings of love
I'll be captivated, I'll hang from your lips
Instead of the gallows of heartache that hang from above

Chorus

And I've dropped out, I've burned up, I fought my way back from the dead
Tuned in, turned on, remembered the things that you said

Chorus

Chorus

The greatest fan of your life.

When i met you

There I was an empty piece of a shell,
Just mindin' my own world;
Without even knowin' what love and life were all about.

Then you came,
You brought me out of the shell;
You gave the world to me
And before I knew,
There I was so in love with you.

You gave me a reason for my being
And I love what I'm feelin'
You gave me a meaning to my life,
Yes, I've gone beyond existing
And it all began when I met you.

I love the touch of your hair
And when I look in your eyes
I just know, I know I'm on to something good

And I'm sure my love for you will endure
Your love will light up my world;
And take all my cares away with the aching part of me.

You gave me a reason for my being
And I love what I'm feelin'
You gave me a meaning to my life,
Yes, I've gone beyond existing
And it all began when I met you.

You taught me how to love,
You showed me how tomorrow and today
My life is diff'rent from the yesterday;
And you, you taught me how to love
And darling I will always cherish you
Today, tomorrow and forever.

And I'm sure when evening comes around
I know we'll be making love like never before;
My love, who could ask for more?

You gave me a reason for my being
And I love what I'm feelin'
You gave me a meaning to my life,
Yes, I've gone beyond existing
And it all began when I met you.
When I met you.

You gave me a reason for my being
And I love what I'm feelin'
You gave me a meaning to my life,
Yes, I've gone beyond existing
And it all began when I met you.
When I met you.

More Than Friendly

More Than Friendly
by John Fischer

In her book, Material Christianity: Religion and Popular Culture in America,

Temple

University

professor Dr. Colleen McDannell has discovered a certain kind of Christian in

America

who seeks to only interact with those who share their Christian beliefs and cultural lifestyle. From her study as a sociologist, she makes a number of very acute observations about this American Christian, the most telling being: “With their non-Christian neighbors they are friendly but rarely best friends.”

I am well acquainted with this kind of thinking. I grew up with it. I was encouraged to be on friendly terms with non-Christians but to have only Christian friends. I'm pretty sure this was more for our protection than anything. Meanwhile, while we were learning to be good Christians, who was left to tell the others about Jesus? Unfortunately that's how we developed gospel tracks and door-to-door evangelism. Hit and run witnessing, I call it. Get in; get out; stay clean.

I have no doubt that Christ would want us to be more than just friendly to those who are not of the household of faith. He would want us to be friends. That's the way He did it when He was here. In fact his friends were quite scandalous among the religious leaders of the day. Word was, Jesus was “a friend of the worst sort of sinners” (Luke 7:34).

Being friendly is just not going to get anybody into the kingdom of heaven. Being a friend will. It takes love, patience, and longsuffering with even the most cantankerous of unbelievers for walls of resistance to break down. And it takes time. But that's what a true friendship is -- caring for someone over the long haul, and letting someone care for you, too. Friendship is always a two-way street.

It's been statistically shown that people who become Christians typically lose all regular contact with their non-Christian friends within two years. What's wrong with this picture? For brand new believers, it may be necessary for a season to stay away from former influences, but this is never to be a permanent situation.

Let's think about our neighbors today, and our work related associates, and think about how we can be more than just friendly. Think of it this way: we are the carriers of Christ. If we remain distant, we are depriving others of the opportunity to come into contact with Him. After all, Christ in you is the hope of glory (Colossians 1:27) -- hope for me, hope for you, and hope for our friends. This is why being friendly just isn't good enough.